Couples Esteem™ Readiness Assessment

CouplesEsteem™ Readiness Assessment

Because love in midlife can be your most rewarding chapter yet.

Created by Julie Silard Kantor, CEO of TwoMentor®

1. Connection & Communication
On a scale of 1–5 (1 = not at all, 5 = very much)

We feel seen, heard, and valued by each other.

We handle conflict with mutual respect.

We’ve grown comfortable — maybe too comfortable — and would like to reignite our spark.

2. Shared Esteem
On a scale of 1–5 (1 = not at all, 5 = very much)

We both want to strengthen our relationship and are open to personal growth.

We take time to appreciate each other’s strengths.

We sometimes feel “stuck” in old patterns that we’d like to shift.

3. Emotional & Lifestyle Alignment
On a scale of 1–5 (1 = not at all, 5 = very much)

We can commit to 6 weeks of 45-minute guided sessions (Zoom or in person) and 5-minute micro-exercises 3x a week.

We’re open to experiential activities — not therapy — focused on connection and confidence.

We want to move forward, not re-live the past.

4. Readiness to Grow Together

When we imagine our next chapter together, we feel:

Reflection Guide:
If you scored mostly 4–5s, you’re ready to build deeper connection, esteem, and joy together.
If you scored mostly 2–3s, the program may still be valuable - our coaching can meet you where you are.
If most responses were 1s, consider if both partners feel ready to engage in forward-focused coaching at this time.

4. Your Why — Let’s Get Personal
(Please answer the questions below together or individually. There are no wrong answers — this helps us understand your goals and ensure a meaningful experience:)

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